Lesbian Guru’s Videos
The One-Hour Orgasm!
The Lesbian Science of Love
Lesbian Safe Sex the Blooper Reel
Lesbian Sex… Safer!
Coming Out… the begining
Depression in Lesbians
Lesbian Suicide Note
Being a Lesbian Seductress Part I
Being a Lesbian Seductress Part II
Communicating Limits using DEAR
Using Ben Wa Balls… to get a Big Fat Orgasm!
Trans for Night 1 to 4
Corrective Rape
Lesbian Flirting Tips vs. Picking Up
Lesbian Flirting “The Truth”
Coming Out… It’s gets better!
Gay Romance Scams…. Watch Out!
Lovin that Bloopers one, still my fav, it was like sweatin to the oldies babe, seriously, lllllloooooooo, oooollllllll, yes, i am slightly retarded too-;)
Wow. I loved the clarity and sincerity of expression during the “D.E.A.R Format” video.
I’m not too “big” to say that I took notes.
I vaguely remember coming across this method of communication some years ago but at the time I was quite young(late teens or very early 20′s) and I hadn’t fully grasped the multidimensional wisdom of the practice. Most likely because I hadn’t thought of communication as a Scientific Art and never considered how much energy and emotional preparation was REQUIRED, not to mention just the general Humanity/Love (if I could use that word) that’s nested within the practice of communicating.
So far, my own practice of DEAR has followed this format: D- descriptions of how pissed off I am at a particular thing/person, E- emblazoned expressions in ,ahem, “french”, shall we say, A- asserting a very thick silence for at least a day, R-reinforcing that silence with avoidance.
Hmmm, after watching this vid. I get the odd impression that I’ve been going about things cockeyed and a** backwards!!
All joking aside, though, thank you for reminding this visitor that PRODUCTIVE exchanges really do require calmness, patience and 100 commitment to a genuine and lasting resolution in the long run.
Christ I have some serious work to do…
PS- the “lesbian science of love” video was begging for both more Time and further elaboration. Y’cant just make scant mention of auras and peering deep into a person’s eye-soul and then sign off, dude. The slow ones in the class are still stuck at the phrase “lesbian science”. A science of “Us”? Really? We didn’t know there was such a thing! And how many times a week/month are we to practice”breath sync” and “monkey see, monkey do”??
An article listing your or another’s observations of these cute techniques would be much appreciated.
Thanks again
Dear Sombhik,
Thank you so much for your feedback and I loved your sense of humor! Life is all about loving and learning and unfortunately we don’t come with manuals so don’t feel bad if you were doing it one way before… today you learnt a new way and now you have a choice and that’s what is so cool about life!
Take Care…. and I will take the “Lesbian Love Science” update into consideration
until then let me know how it goes on your end!
Love alex